Healing your inner critic
I’m originally from London but during the pandemic, I moved to the peaceful countryside of Warwick — where nature and long walks feel like home.
Before this, I was chasing success—studying English Literature, interning for a break into journalism, and teaching English in Asia for three years. But when I returned to London and went into marketing, I started to feel empty. I churned out words but they didn’t mean anything to me.
The corporate world wasn’t fulfilling, and despite advice to climb the ladder, I couldn’t see anyone living the life I wanted. That’s when I realised it was time to change (but not without resistance —I took job after job hoping I’d feel differently. I didn’t). Finally, I studied psychotherapy and found my true passion.
Integrative Psychotherapist
1:1 online mental health support, specialising in anxiety, depression, phobias and ADHD
New possibilities
For years, my inner critic told me my dreams were unrealistic, but staying the same was more painful than the risk of change. As Anaïs Nin said:
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.”
Change brings vulnerability, loss and fear. And yet, over time we grow, strengthen, and find new possibilities. It just seems impossible at the time.
If you're ready to reconnect with your authentic self, overcome limitations, and awake to a more conscious way of living— I’m here to help you flourish. You deserve to be the fullest expression of yourself.
Expect…
Therapy sessions will be a space to explore your worries, blind spots and hopes. Start to step outside your comfort zone for lasting growth.
Expertise
I’ve guided adults with various mental health issues such as anxiety, depression, trauma, phobias, ADHD, OCD, perinatal/ postpartum depression, grief and loss and life transitions.
Modalities I use:
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Hypnosis, Motivational Interviewing, Gestalt, Somatic Experiencing, Humanistic therapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Relational Psychodynamic therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy
Qualifications
-Psychology MSc (Master of Science), BPP
-Hypnotherapy Diploma (DHP Acc. Hyp)
-Coaching (ICF ACSTH Professional Coach)
-Psychotherapy Training: Mental health treatments (120 hours+), NCHP
Memberships
-British Psychological Society (GMBPsS -Graduate Membership)
-Registered Hypnotherapist with the General Hypnotherapist Register (GHR)
Treatments
Anxiety & Despression
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Anxiety is a common mental health disorder that includes worried thoughts, tension and racing thoughts. Anxiety is a future-oriented condition, often thinking of the worst-case scenario and negative thoughts.
9 Types of anxiety disorders:
1. Generalised Anxiety Disorder (GAD)
2. Social Anxiety Disorder (SAD)
3. Panic Disorder
4. Phobias
5. Post Traumatic Stress Disorders (PTSD)
6. Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
7. Health Anxiety
8. Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD)
9. Perinatal anxiety/ OCD
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Bipolar includes intense and extreme emotions, mood swings, depression, and manic episodes (elevated moods that last at least a week and impair daily functioning). Since emotions are extreme, some may engage in suicidal ideation.
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Depression is extreme sadness or despair that lasts more than days. Symptoms can include pain, weight loss or gain, sleep and focus issues, feelings of worthlessness, shame and guilt, suicidal ideation, and lack of energy.
People with depression may also experience an inability to concentrate, feelings of worthlessness or excessive guilt, and recurrent thoughts of death or suicide.
Depression is the most common mental disorder. Fortunately, depression is treatable via a combination of therapy and antidepressant medication.
Types of depression
1. Major depression2. Melancholia
3. Psychotic Depression
4. Perinatal depression
5. Dysthymic disorder
6. Bipolar disorder
7. Cyclothymic disorder
8. Seasonal affective disorder (SAD)
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Perinatal depression refers to depression during pregnancy or after childbirth (usually up to 1 year after birth). Postpartum depressions refers to depression after childbirth.
Perinatal depression is more than the 'baby blues.' It includes feelings of extreme sadness, indifference and/or anxiety, as well as changes in energy, sleep, and appetite.
Giving birth is a challenging time for mothers since they experience biological, emotional, financial, and social changes. Depending on support and mental health issues, some individuals are at more risk of depression and anxiety.
Addictions & Attention
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A psychological state of dependence on drugs and other substances (such as alcohol), activities or behaviours.
The term is often used as an equivalent term for substance use disorder or substance dependence and can be applied to non-substance-related behavioral addictions, such as sex, exercise, and gambling.
Examples of addiction:
Alcohol addictionCigarette addiction
Drug Addiction
Emotional relationships addiction
Gambling addiction
Sex addiction
Shopping addiction
Technology addiction
Work addiction
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ADHD, or attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder, is a behavioural condition that makes focusing on daily tasks difficult.
People with ADHD typically have trouble getting organized, staying focused, making realistic plans, and thinking before acting. They may be fidgety, noisy, and unable to adapt to changing situations.
Children with ADHD can be defiant, socially inept, or aggressive.
Adult ADHD can lead to unstable relationships, poor work or school performance, low self-esteem, and other problems.
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Chrnoic procrastination is the practice of consistently avoiding or putting off finishing tasks or responsibilities, even when doing so can result in negative outcomes.
While chronic procrastination isn't a disorder, it can be associated with mental health conditions. Many adults who struggle with procrastination may also have attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), anxiety, depression, and stress.
Procrastinators may also suffer from poor sleep, get less exercise, increased loneliness and have financial issues.
attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) struggle with procrastination.
Research has found that procrastination is linked to mental health problems, including anxiety, depression, and stress. Procrastinators have worse sleep quality, get less physical exercise, experience greater loneliness, and increased financial problems.3
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Phobias involve having a constant fear of a specific object, activity or situation. The fear is usually excessive and unreasonable and is triggered by the presence or anticipation of the feared object or situation, which is either avoided or endured with marked anxiety or distress.
Examples of phobias:Childbirth
Confined spaces
Driving
Heights
Making mistakes
Public speaking
Social crowds
Stress & Anger
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Burnout is a syndrome from chronic workplace stress, and is not classified as a medical condition.
There are three components: exhaustion, negativity towards one's job, and reduced professional efficiency.
The word was first used in this sense in 1975 by U.S. psychologist Herbert J. Freudenberger (1926–1999) in referring to workers in clinics with heavy caseloads. Burnout is most often observed in professionals who work in service-oriented vocations (e.g., social workers, teachers, correctional officers) and experience chronic high levels of stress.
Anger and Stress Management includes learning strategies to cope more effectively with both anger and stress. This can include mindfulness based stress reduction (MBSR), somatic (mind-body) practices, and healthy coping skills. -
Narcissistic abuse is a form of abuse from narcissistic behaviors. It can be emotional, psychological, or physical. Narcissistic characteristics can include volatile behaviour, lack of empathy, and aggression. Narcissistic abuse may include gaslighting, constant criticism, humiliation, and coercion.
Signs of narcissistic abuse:
Gaslighting: denying an event that happened, questioning someone's memory, belittling others.Dishonesty: lying to cover up insecurity.
Controlling: controlling another's actions, finances, interactions because they are insecure and jealous.
Exploitation: exploiting others.
Lack of empathy: do not relate to others.
Belittling or devaluing: the abuser may insult, humiliate, degrade, or belittle others.
Intimidation: aggressive, intimidating, bullying or manipulative behaviour.
Volatile behaviour: aggressive and abusive to others.
Rage: having rage attacks.
Emotional blackmail: an abuser may threaten to harm themselves or others if you leave.
Punishing: seeking revenge or punishment on others.
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PTSD is a disorder that results from experiencing a traumatic event, and feeling fear, terror, or helplessness.
The symptoms are characterized by (a) reexperiencing the trauma in painful recollections, flashbacks, or recurrent dreams or nightmares; (b) avoidance of activities or places that recall the traumatic event, as well as diminished responsiveness (emotional anesthesia or numbing), with disinterest in significant activities and with feelings of detachment and estrangement from others; and (c) chronic physiological arousal, leading to such symptoms as an exaggerated startle response, disturbed sleep, difficulty in concentrating or remembering, and guilt about surviving the trauma when others did not (see survivor guilt).
Subtypes are chronic posttraumatic stress disorder and delayed posttraumatic stress disorder. When the symptoms do not last longer than 4 weeks, a diagnosis of acute stress disorder is given instead (APA, 2023).
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Trauma is an emotional response to a terrible event like an accident, crime, natural disaster, physical or emotional abuse, neglect, experiencing or witnessing violence, death of a loved one, war, and more. Immediately after the event, shock and denial are typical. Longer-term reactions include unpredictable emotions, flashbacks, strained relationships, and even physical symptoms like headaches or nausea.
While these feelings are normal, some people have difficulty moving on with their lives (APA, 2024).
Trauma examples:Emotional or physical abuse
Generational family traumaNatural disasters
Religious abuse
Sudden death
Sexual abuse